two ladders for women and just one for men..

a little friend told me a story abt ladders.. she said that women own two ladders while men own only one.. in their mind abt the opposite sex.

Women's first ladder is for potential love/life partner while the second ladder is purely for friendship. So, if men kick off the friendship with her on the second ladder, u will never win her heart no matter how hard u try - since u started on the wrong foot or wrong ladder. But if u start off on the first ladder, u have the potential to climb higher to win her heart.. not withstanding competition.

Men is simpler - only one ladder. Meaning, any women have the chance to win his heart.. ;-)

Do u agree with this thinking? Mmm.. i'm still wondering.. but it's an interesting concept nonetheless.