Dont worry too much what people think about you..

We dont need to worry too much what people think about us.. why? coz most people are more concern about themselves than you! That's the truth..

Sadly, people are getting more and more self-centred or self-interested these days.. blame it on the media, blame it on economics progress, blame it on all things making us becoming materialistic.. While we can blame, actually we can manage it! We can handle it! For me, i believe learning & practicing Buddhist's teachings will help a lot.. ;-)

But let us come back to the worrying thingy first.. yes, most people are concern abt themselves. So, when u go for a presentation, dont worry so much that your presentation will be scrutinized every bit! The audience (most of them) will either be dreaming, worry abt their own work or problems.. only a few actually pay attention.. even so, they're only concern with that few key points of yours than be concerned whether u're saying in complete sentences or yr tie is in the right position. Most are looking, not actually seeing.. Most are dreaming, few are listening..

Even if there're people really watching u, how many? maybe only one or two?.. and they wont be there to belittle u for nothing.. But what usually happen is that you get so nervous that u overdo it.. 'over say' it yourself.. and that's what actually screws u up! You are your own greatest enemy! Staying calm is the key.