Human relationship is so fragile..

Have u been hurt by someone before? Did a close friend suddenly turn into your foe? Human relationship is so fragile.. ;-(

No matter how hard we try somehow the person u least expect will say or do something that will hurt your feelings. No matter how..

It is, therefore important to realize early that we cant depend on anyone for your happiness. That includes yr parents, spouse, love ones, friends,.. We can only depend on ourselves.

Many people also take their relationships for granted especially your love ones.. and we thought they will understand us.. It is not surprising that some people turn to animals for friendship instead. It's not a bad idea for keeping pets.. but the reliance of pets as a means of escape that's worrying - it doesn't solve the root cause.

One of the ways out of these is to understand the 4 noble truths and practice the 8 fold-path. We need to rid our earthly attachments while we cultivate love & compassion as well as build our wisdom along the way.